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No Blame

28 Sunday Dec 2014

Posted by strength and resilience in Advanced Reset technique, Simple Reset for Adults

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walkWhen we try something new, and fail, we often blame ourselves. I should have more willpower, I can’t focus, my life is too stressful. Or we blame others, my boss, my teacher, my spouse, my family, my past, my partner; they aren’t helping, they’re too demanding, there’s not enough time.

As it turns out, failure is part of the learning process for almost everyone. People who can do something instantly to an expert level are so rarely found, that they have their own word to describe them; prodigy.

 For the rest of all of us, there should be no blame in failing.

Blame hijacks the learning process, sidetracking it away from consolidation, reflection, and response, into a reactive-predictive cycle of ‘I can’t do it, because….’. Blame works as an anchor to the past, and change can only happen in the present.  Failure to get it right, and examining why without blame, is the way it is done, all the way to mastery.

Don’t blame yourself for practicing the blame game; just realize that it is not an effective tool for building a future you.

With something that is as self initiated as the Simple Reset Technique, there will be many times that you have to ‘start over’, because something came up that took your attention, your time, …no blame.

runOne hundred times starting over is still one hundred repetitions, and in the act of repetition, you will change your brain, and your self.

Another reason to keep your mouth closed

12 Wednesday Nov 2014

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A baby’s life force energy is fresh, unstressed, and free. Still unaffected by the world we live in, the baby rolls around, kicking and waving at the air, making all sorts of sounds, uninhibited by nature. The ‘force is strong’ with them. They sleep with their mouths closed and their tongues touching the roofs of their mouths.

 The life force of an old person approaching their last days is weak, hesitant, and thin. Worn down by the years, they move slowly, limbs stiff, voices soft, inhibited by age itself. They sleep with their mouths open and their tongues lying flat in the bottom of their mouths. 

The strong life force of the sleeping baby ‘pulls’ the tongue up against the roof of the mouth, making a connection between the energy that runs up the spine and over the top of the head, and the energy that runs up the front through the chest and neck to the tip of the tongue. The ‘strong force’ works like a magnet, drawing up the tongue and closing the mouth.

In the old person the energy isn’t strong anymore, and the mouth falls open when they aren’t keeping it closed consciously.

Want to hold onto the strong effects of the ‘force’? Develop the habit of keeping your tongue gently pressed to the roof of your mouth whenever you aren’t talking. Where, exactly? Right where your tongue would be if you were about to create the sound for the letter L. This is also the position used for the Breathing Technique.

What you do, becomes you.

05 Sunday Oct 2014

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plas“Every thought, emotion, and act leaves a trail of neurological footprints within you’”- Dr Charlotte Tomaino

The field of neuroscience has changed enormously in recent years. The brain, once viewed as static, unchanging and fixed in adulthood, is now understood to be plastic; flexible, adaptable and capable of growth and change.

What does this mean for you? w

Everything you do during your day plays a role in creating who you are. The cells in the brain, the neurons, respond and change in reaction to what you think, how you feel and what you do.

What you do, becomes who you are.

How frequency trumps duration

04 Saturday Oct 2014

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It is more important to practice frequently than to practice occasionally for a long time

Frequency Adaptation

             Frequency Adaptation

Imagine you take a short walk through a forest a few times a day. Within a small period of time your repetitive steps will begin to produce a path.

 

 

 

Where was I?

                     Where was I?

Contrast this with a longer walk, but only once per week. You’d barely leave a trail, and most signs of your steps will vanish within a few days, leaving you to start again anew the following week.

 

 

Practice the first steps and practice them frequently. Frequent repetition not only produces a path in the woods, but through a similar process, one establishes a path in the brain.

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